If you’ve ever thought, “Why does it feel like I have to try to orgasm?” 🫠 you’re not alone. And before you start thinking it’s some kind of personal failure, let me stop you right there. Orgasms aren’t something you ‘achieve.’ They’re something your body naturally responds to. But if your brain is in overdrive, it’s going to block that response before it even has a chance to happen. Your brain needs to feel safe enough to let go. If you’re in your head, overanalyzing, stressing about performan